Today i saw a chinese article which make me tear...its something that a parents told their son and daughter...I felt it was so meaningful and very touching.And now im far away from home,i really miss them =((( i dont know how are they going on,my parents already 62 years old,i don't know how long they can be with me...Everytime i look on their face,the wrinkle was increase day by day...haizzz,when i felt stress and upset with my study,im just think of my parents.It makes me feel a lil bit comfort.The reason that i can persist until the end is because my parents.I hope one day they can see their daughter in the convocation day,they might be so proud of me...and here are the article that i translate from the chinese article...treasure your parents.

The day that you see me old and I am already not, have patience and try to understand me … 

If I get dirty when eating… if I cannot dress… have patience. 
 
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you. 

If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same things thousand and one 
times… do not interrupt me… listen to me 


When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep… When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me… 


Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you wanted to bath…When you see my on new technologies… give me the necessary time and not look at me with your mocking smile… 

I taught you how to do so many things… to eat well, to dress well… to confront life… 

When at some moment I lose the memory or the thread of our conversation… let me have the necessary time to remember… and if I cannot do it;do not become nervous… as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me… 

If ever I do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when I need to and when not. 

When my tired legs do not allow me walk… give me your hand… the same way I did when you gave your first steps. 
 
And when someday I say to you that I do not want to live any more… 
that I want to die… do not get angry… some day you will understand… 

Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived. 

Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always wanted 
the best thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way for you. 

You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you. You must be next to me, try to understand me and to help me as I did it when you started living. Help me to walk… help me to end my way with love and patience. I will 
pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always for you. 

I love you my children… 

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